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Reviews: Excerpt: A whole and authentic life is not spent buried in books, not spent in prayer circles or meditation rituals, not spent in therapy rooms or an endless succession of self-improvement events, not spent being afraid to turn the stereo above three or bond with those of completely differing beliefs and interests. It may include some of these activities, but not from the flight inducing perspectives of fear. Any sensation of being afraid, leads us away from an actualized life, and holds us captive to the search for context. So each of these activities only benefit us to the extent that they are choices to move toward the self, existing as additional components to a life full with other exchanges and expressions. Although frequently spoken of in minimizing language our human body and senses are as important an aspect to living a complete life, as is our inner wisdom. A life lived wholly is spent eating amazing food and enjoying every calorie, having great sex with a beloved, and dancing with your whole body, mind, and spirit until you can barely move the next day, then waking to languor within your sheets smiling at the exuberance of the experience. This is the embodiment of an authentic life. To truly and fully live, one must feel life, taste life, be life. The renowned writer Emile’ Zola once stated: It is time to come out of the cloistered confines of a self-created classroom and dive into the most magnificent field of learning that will ever be available to us—life. As you rise from your study and struggle to begin with a totally new set of experiences of living wholly, you begin to understand the vastness of a life only available through full sensory participation. We each have models in and around our lives, friends, and associations who do live in a full way, who have grasped the understanding that living is the action of being consciously alive. The people we each find closest to us are those with whom we share the most in common. How many of those dearest to you also model full sensory living? How many within your intimate circle live with such uninhibited passion as to inspire not only their closest friends and family, but all with whom they come in contact? What traits and traditions are those most closely bonded to you emulating? What are the points of similarity between them as a group, between them and you? Are they committed to living the fullest experience offered in each moment of every day? Do they exude the radiance of happy people with full lives and richly intimate relationships? Are they involved in life beyond the parameters of their immediate family, work, and close personal friends? Do they reach out to the world at large through community service, volunteerism, political activism, social advocacy, and then come back to share of the enrichment this offered? Is traveling—enjoying new and unfamiliar environments, gaining wisdom from varying cultures, drinking in the many different sights and sounds that this world has to share, to educate through, and to simply enjoy—a regular part of their life? Can you sit and chat with them about the great novels you have each read, or the new musician you only just discovered, the amazing film you recently attended? How varied are your associations? What is the breadth of your daily experience? This is the mirror reflection of your own level of comfort in engaging with the wide range of possibilities available to each of us in this world. |
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